Just ask anyone. People don't usually say, "I want to go to Hell." One's final state comes into sharp focus when the reality of eternal punishment or eternal reward is presented...unless they are distracted. If I put together a surprise birthday party for you, invited all your close friends, and catered your favorite food and hired your favorite band, in order for me to surprise you, I'd have to do everything possible to distract you until the last minute, the last few second